Have you gone through a time that you have questioned past decisions? Maybe you would have gotten pregnant without Clomid? Maybe you should have tried IVF? Maybe you should have looked into alternative medicine? Maybe you should have looked at adoption earlier? Maybe you should have used an egg donor?
There are all kinds of “Maybes”. The fact is you made the best decision with the information you had at the time. In most cases you had to also agree with your spouse about the decision. Don’t ask questions that don’t have answers (I wonder if we would have used donor eggs we would have been pregnant this time?) But get all the information you can for your next decision and go from there.
Are you stuck on some past decisions that you keep thinking about?