Are you making decisions based on assumptions? Do you think you know the facts that you need? Being informed can be your best ally on the road through infertility. There will be differing opinions (does acupuncture work? What role does diet play? Are there supplements that help boost fertility? How old is “too old” to use your own eggs?) Often we have preconceived ideas and/or an answer we are hoping for and keep researching until we find someone who shares our view. Be careful not to be too influenced by any one group. Take in multiple resources and make the best decision you can. Ask others what their experience have been and seek out recommendations. Try to find providers whose core beliefs align with your own then you will have more peace with your decisions.