Have you ever written a letter to your future child? Have you told her/him how hard you are trying to bring them into the world? How heartbreaking it is to wait? Sometimes writing a letter like this can help release some of the feelings you have kept inside. It also can be a wonderful keepsake for you to read with your future child (I’m assuming/hoping/praying that there will be a future child for you). Try it, save it, take it out when you feel sad. Write a new one every few months if needed.