How do you know when to stop waiting and start doing (or start doing something different)? How do you know when it’s time to start seeing a specialist, start IUI’s, or try IVF? When do you know when to sign-up for a home study for adoption, to change programs/countries or do more for your birth mother search? How do you decide when to take a break or when enough is enough?
Be informed. Get as much information as you can. Learn from the experts and specialists. Get second opinions. Trust your gut. Know yourself, know your spouse. Trust each other. Make a 3 month plan. Reevaluate your plan.
Live while you wait.