One question I always ask couples that are trying to make a decision about the next step in their journey is “What would you do if money was not an issue?” This question can sometimes help you clarify your goal. But the reality is that money is an issue and needs to be considered. There are several places on-line that list grants and other financial assistance for infertility treatments and adoption costs. Here is one sight I found helpful:
Another one specifically for adoption is:
this is the organization Mary Beth Chapman and Steven Curtis Chapman run. Her book: Choosing to See is a heartwarming tale of adoption and loss that will touch your heart. The work they have done in China is unbelievable.